Your Guide to Soul Care

Your Path to Healing, Renewal, and Flourishing Starts Here.

The Way of Becoming offers an illuminated path to every hurting soul: a promise that no matter how complicated the pain, how big your mistakes, or how deep the mess, Jesus is there with you in your story, waiting to meet with you, to give you healing and renewal, and to lead you towards the flourishing, abundant life for which you were made.

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  • "Kerry has always been an engaging storyteller and a fantastic public speaker, but her book shows she is an equally great writer, which is rare. What sets Kerry apart most, however, is how her stories and insights consistently change people for the better."

    —DR. MARTY MAKARY, Surgeon, Public Policy Expert, and 3x New York Times Bestselling Author, Unaccountable, The Price We Pay, and Blind Spots

  • "It’s rare to find an individual who combines spectacularly sharp intellect with a beautifully softened heart. Kerry is one of those rarities. The Way of Becoming is simply brilliant! Its brilliance stems not from Kerry’s exceptional talent but from what God carried her through and revealed to her. The candid narrative, the divine teachings, and the profound tools of encouragement are a must-read for a generation stuck on their journey toward the Divine."

    —MARK STUART, 2x Grammy Award Winning Artist, Audio Adrenaline, Author, Losing My Voice to Find It

  • "As a relational therapist, I engage in the broken areas and unresolved hurts people bring into my office. The twelve tools in The Way of Becoming are compatible with any age, intellect, denomination, ethnicity, and spiritual maturity, offering daily practices that bring people into God’s design for wholeness, purpose, and freedom in Christ."

    —LORI SANNER, LPC, Marriage and Family Counselor 

A Framework

for Flourishing

Discover the heart of The Way of Becoming through its 12 transformative practices. This framework for soul care is thoughtfully organized into three areas of reconciliation: with God, within ourselves, and with others. Each practice offers practical steps to guide you toward healing, renewal, and flourishing. As a preview of what you'll find in the book, this diagram introduces you to the powerful tools and principles that can shape your journey of becoming all God intends.

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More About the Book

At the heart of each of us lies a soul longing to be right with God and reconciled with others. Beyond our drive for success is a deeper yearning to find our purpose and live meaningful lives.  

Yet, life can be messy and overwhelming. Disappointments and hurts accumulate, making it difficult to embrace the truth of Scripture and apply faith to our struggles. We often conceal our pain and lock away our wounds—lost dreams, unmet expectations, and betrayals. This unresolved pain hinders our ability to lead thriving lives, as outward success means little without inner peace. In our darkest moments, well-meaning words like “hope,” “trust,” and “pray” can feel empty. We struggle to know how to maintain relationships when trust has been broken or how to hope when hope seems lost.  

Described as “the how of faith in the now of life,” The Way of Becoming offers an illuminated pathway for every hurting soul. It assures us that no matter how deep our pain, how weak our frame, or how significant our battles are, Jesus walks alongside us, offering healing, strength, and renewed hope. Presented in a story-based narrative and infused with Scripture, The Way of Becoming explores twelve faith practices that provide a “roadmap” for soul care to everyone that, when applied, will lead to greater intimacy with God and personal wholeness. Its twelve tools work together to help us recognize God’s presence in our lives, foster deeper relationships, and experience inner healing. With its collection of inspiring, true stories and vivid illustrations from around the globe – from Africa to China, India to Russia, Israel to Egypt – readers will embark on their own transformational journeys of healing and learn how to rise out of their stuck places and enter more abundant spaces. 

Scripture beckons us all to “consider the ancient paths” (Jeremiah 6:16), and this book presents twelve ancient practices of the Christian faith in modern language with practical applications. This beautiful work will enrich and guide you in applying each practice to your trying circumstances, your soul’s condition, and the complexities of your relationships. Whether you read this alone or go through it with a friend or in a study group, every active participant in this faith exploration will encounter the Spirit’s movements in their life, taking them from wondering to discovering, needing to receiving, hoping to believing, and on to greater flourishing. 

Ultimately, The Way of Becoming serves as a “Rosetta Stone” for the soul, revealing the Lord’s empowering presence in every story—even yours.